Subject: Re: Happy Pride Month!
sano: it hurts me in my gonads of good intent and common sense.

If you have a penis and I call you a HE, I am following my common sense. Not your arbitrary rule. You may want to be called HE today, SHE tomorrow or THEY next Monday. It doesn't matter to me.

As Lincoln said, (paraphrasing from memory) how many legs does a horse have if you call his tail a leg? Still four. Calling a tail a leg doesn't make it so.

Cross dressing men with penises are men. Trans women. Not "women" with no qualifiers. Biology is biology.
I am generous enough (or rational enough) to say that they are women if they have a vagina, whether acquired at birth or later surgically. Not otherwise.