Subject: Re: Happy Pride Month!
How about a little understanding and respect of my beliefs and they let it go with respect towards me. I do not and will not go out of my way to make any person feel uncomfortable.

Then there's no problem with using your best efforts to call them by the pronouns they want to be called by. Unless you're going out of your way to make them feel uncomfortable, that will take no effort at all.

I expect the same for me and realize I too am of a different mindset. Transgenders should not expect me (or anyone else) to fall in line for them with what is uncomfortable for me (us).

Why shouldn't they expect that of you? We don't allow people to wield their discomfort to engage in discrimination.

We expect people to refrain from discriminating against people based on their race or religion or sex, regardless of whether it makes them uncomfortable or not. It doesn't matter whether being around Aleuts or Sikhs or women makes you uncomfortable, or whether you have serious philosophical objections to transacting business with them - if you run a business, you have to accommodate those folks whether it makes you uncomfortable or not. And you're going to have to refrain from making statements or referring to them using terms that cause them discomfort based on their race or religion or sex - regardless of whether refraining from making those statements or using the terms you want to use causes you discomfort.

The reason we don't allow that is because in all those clashes of interests, we adjudge the internal discomfort of the discriminator to be less of a negative than the harms caused to the person being discriminated against. Why shouldn't trans people aspire to the same thing for themselves?