Subject: Re: A Conversation with our Yard Guy
It ain't an Ad-hom to call Shaq "tall" if it is true.

I also make an effort to differentiate between the person and their actions.

So instead of saying “You are stupid” I try to say “What you are doing is stupid.”

Take the emphasis off of the person and put it into their actions. It’s easier to change your actions than to change who you are.

—Peter