Not sure why you think "defending" is necessary.

Which, I suppose, is why you anticipated that you might receive some name-calling.

Please stop it with the analyzing lawyer talk with me.

Part of what I said was in jest.
It is well known libs will start with their twisted name calling etc, I'm not all inclusive,
hateful and so on.

If a wo/man makes the decision to become a trans, it is all right with me.
Live and let live.
Just don't trample on the rights or intrude where they most certainly will create an uncomfortable situation as noted in the examples of the OP.

Sorry, to be blunt, I don't want a penis trans exposing themselves while I am in a ladies bathroom or a spa because they now think they have the right to do so.
The silly notion, well, there are stalls with doors in the ladies bathroom still does not make it comfortable or acceptable to most all girls/ladies.

Trans or not, be respectable and considerate of each other's 'space'.
Follow the Golden Rule.