Is military help the only type of help that counts?

Certainly not, but the help should be in proportion to the benefits received and responsibilities accrued for belonging to a group in the first place.

Correctly pointing out that not everything wrong in the world is Trump's fault does not negate the fact that this specific problem is very much Trump's fault.

In this case, no. The Royal Navy doesn’t have more admirals than ships because of Donald Trump, for example. Reducing every single thread to Orange Man. Bad. is repetitive and frankly, boring.

Trump had zero to do with various NATO countries deciding with their wallets that the domestic policy of free stuff outweighed their international responsibilities.

What’s hilarious is that all these allies (by doing what you’re saying)...are proving Trump’s point:

If they truly gave a sh1t about “the international alliance” they’d know US politics well enough to know that no one President is permanent.

Tells you something.